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Nativity of our Lord Cycle C (4)
If you only had Matthew’s Gospel, what would you have?
Last week we looked at the opening of Luke’s Gospel and his version of the Advent narratives, his “orderly account.” He begins with Zechariah and Elizabeth and the birth of John the Baptist who would come to prepare the way, then on to Mary and the miracle birth. But if you only had Matthew, what would you have?
No Annunciation to Mary
No visit to Elizabeth and the Magnificat
No detail on John’s miraculous birth
No enrollment calling people to Bethlehem
No over-crowded inn
No stable, manger, sheep or cattle lowing when the baby wakes
No boisterous angel choirs or adoring shepherds
If you only had Matthew, what would you have? You would have Joseph.
Across the ages we venerate Mary and sing about shepherds who watched their flocks by night; we are hushed by the wonder of angels sweetly singing o’re the plains, and the mountains in reply echoing their joyous strains; we even tell tales of an innkeeper who isn’t really there, a drummer boy who is only fiction and kindly beasts who are only assumed. But we have none of that in Matthew. Matthew begins with what we in our day consider to be the somewhat boring details of Joseph’s genealogy, tracking back across the centuries to show the connection of this baby with all that has gone before, linking Jesus through Joseph to the long journey of faith from Abraham and Isaac, David and Solomon, through the exile and the Babylonian captivity, all of it building to the birth of this child. He focuses on Joseph’s dream and Joseph’s response, and in less than a sentence he tells the whole of the birth story itself.
Then he fast-forwards—possibly three or four years later—to the mysterious visit of the magi from the east followed by Herod’s brutal response with the slaughter of Bethlehem’s babies. And of course it is Joseph who comes out the hero once again. He has another dream and saves the child as the family become refugees in Egypt.
So if you only had Matthew and you only had Joseph, what do you have?
1. You have the promise: “Don’t be afraid.”
At the risk of repeating myself from last week, here it is again the monotonous message of the angels, repeated in every passage of every Gospel like a broken record to Zechariah and Elizabeth, to Mary and the shepherds, and now to Joseph: “Don’t be afraid.”
It is the redundant promise which provides the reoccurring theme running through the whole story. When God calls, when God acts, when God moves, the first promise is the promise to cast out our fear. “Don’t be afraid.” Though it may indeed be frightful to find yourself in the presence of an angel, though life may indeed have frightful elements in it and there may be, in fact, plenty of things to fear, if God is present and active, his first invitation is the invitation to get beyond fear as the primary force in your life and discover a calm center in the midst of the crisis.
The angel always begins by saying, “Don’t be afraid.” No matter how bad the news and no matter how panic-stricken the news reporter may sound, do not allow fear to control and dominate your life. Yes, the world can be frightful (and who knows that better than Joseph,) but the world will not have the last word. God is also present and by his grace, we will not fear.
If you only have Matthew and you only have Joseph, once again you have the promise that comes to everyone in the story… “Don’t be afraid.”
2. And if you only have Matthew and you only have Joseph, you have a name: “Jesus…Immanuel.”
Matthew borrows from the Old Testament prophet, once again to make the connection with the long prophetic history of covenant faith and he gives this child a name:
“You shall call his name Jesus, because he will save his people from their sins. Call him Immanuel, which means ‘God with us.’ ”
Matthew takes Isaiah’s words of comfort and assurance from another time and another century and offers them as the name of the one who comes among us, even this child, even Joseph’s son. As Charles Wesley says it:
Veiled in flesh the God-head see
Hail the incarnate deity
Pleased with us in flesh to dwell
Jesus our Immanuel. [1]
When you strip away all the frills and flourishes, all the angel wings and starlight; when you take away the shepherds on bended knee, the sheep in the hay and the cattle lowing; when you get right to the heart of it, this is what lies at the very heart of Christmas: God has not left us alone. God is no longer just “out there,” but has come to be one with us to live in our flesh, to share in our lives, to experience our pain, going with us all the way to our death, in order to make known God’s unending, unfathomable, undeserved, unlimited love.
I came across a column I clipped from the Ann Arbor News a few years ago by columnist Jo Mathis, entitled “Crazy World Could Use Direct Word from God.” She offers the laundry list of everything that’s troubling in the world religious zealots who want to kill the infidels (meaning you and me); wars, diseases and natural disasters; the ugliness of hate and racism, and the prevalence of violence. Then she says:
“I’ve come to the conclusion there is only one answer—God is going to have to get down here and settle things once and for all. Sure it would be a little freaky if the world came to a halt and there was God in a burning bush or a chariot of fire, but I say it’s time.”
Well I say God has already done that.
God has already come down here to settle things once and for all. God has already spoken. He has spoken in the form of a child born to Joseph and Mary, spoken through the parables of an itinerant teacher and healer, spoken in the life of one who has inspired the ages, spoken ultimately from a cross and an empty tomb. And if we are not going to listen to the Word he has already spoken, there is little chance we will listen to the next one either.
When I go to church growth conferences, I listen to all the ideas and suggestions, and I often say to myself, “I already know more than I am doing.” And in all truth, we probably all do. God could send another “direct word” into this crazy world, but the fact is, we already know more than we are doing. We have heard, and we have seen God’s word made flesh in Jesus Christ.
We already know that we should do unto others as we would have them do unto us.
We already know that we should love our enemies and pray for those who despitefully use us.
We already know that the peacemakers are blessed and shall be called the children of God, that the meek are blessed and will inherit the earth; that the merciful are blessed because they shall receive mercy.
We already know we should forgive 70 times seven.
We already know we should turn the other cheek
We already know that it is more blessed to give than to receive.
We already know that love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things, and that love never ends.
We have already seen and heard the word from God and we have beheld his glory, glory as in the only begotten Son of the father, full of grace and truth. Frankly, we already know more than we are doing. We already know this one named Jesus, who came to save us from our sins; this one called Immanuel, which means God is with us…already, here and now, one with us.
When I was in college, I traveled with a drama troupe called “The King’s Players.” One of the plays we performed was called “For Heaven’s Sake” by Helen Kromer. In it there is a poem which I can still, after all these years, repeat from memory:
I’m nothing, I’m nobody, no one,
But someone made something of me;
He lived in my flesh and he walked in my bones
And he saw all the grief that I see.
He knew what I know of tormentors,
This haunting and howling within;
Of the blood that can spill and the bone that can break
And the flesh with the nails driven in.
He hung on the cross as a creature
Wearing my sin-spattered cloths;
And the pride in my flesh died with him when he died
And my raiment was new when he rose.
This clothing I wear with a difference—
It’s flesh that the King entered in!
He put there his love and his almighty law
And it never can be what it’s been.
I’m nothing, nobody, no one,
I’m someone in Christ who’s in me;
And I’ll put on his flesh and I’ll walk in his bones
And a part of his body I’ll be. [2]
If you only have Matthew and if you only have Joseph, you have a promise, you have a name: “Immanuel, God with us.”
3.…And you have a task.
The angel said, “Joseph, Game On! I’ve got a job for you. Take Mary as your wife. She will bear a son, and you will call his name Jesus. Get up and get going. It’s time to move out of the comfort zone of the carpenter shop and take up the task of carrying the Christ into the world of corrupt rulers and down the road of struggling refugees. You are entrusted with the task…
…of preserving the gift
…of nurturing the message
…of caring for the good news.”
And maybe that’s why we prefer Luke’s version.
Perhaps we prefer an Advent focused on looking back across the ages to the warm memories of shepherds in the fields and silent nights, a baby in a barn and adoring angels. Perhaps we prefer a Hallmark Christmas by Currier and Ives or the Thomas Kincaid version, all misty in glowing candlelight and glimmering snow, and of course Luke’s gospel has its place.
But Matthew won’t leave us there.
If your lead character is Joseph, the Christmas story becomes the story of awesome responsibility, a tale told in the face of warring worlds, unjust rulers and suffering refugees, in the presence of families huddling in hiding and babies born in barns. If your lead character is Joseph, the Christmas angel comes with calling, a task. There is work to be done, and it’s up to you to do it.
Several years ago, Marjorie Holmes wrote a fictionalized version of the nativity, attempting to fill in the blanks, telling the love story of Joseph and Mary. It was “Two From Galilee.” After the word from the angel, she describes the conversation between Mary and Joseph, capturing his struggle with the call and the task:
Mary: Joseph, you don’t believe…for all your reading of the scriptures, you don’t believe.
Joseph: Mary, I do believe. I do believe God will keep his promises. The Christ will come, someday. But not now, not to us in our time, in our town, to us and our neighbors. Not to you and me. No, no, this great event will happen far away, to other people. That will make it credible and safe. People will not have it—they will not have evidence that God will keep his promises, not if it is personal. Personal involvement in God’s plan is too terrible. It costs too dearly. [3]
Ah, Joseph, you are so right. We all want to see God at work…someplace else. We want to see God’s kingdom come, God’s will being done on earth as it is in heaven, but we would prefer it was through someone else. We want to see the promises fulfilled, but certainly not here, not now, not in our time and our town, certainly not through us. It is too terrible. It costs too dearly to become personally involved with God. But to encounter the angel of Advent is to become a part of the mission and calling. The task given to Joseph becomes our task as well carrying the Christ into the world.
Well, if you only had Matthew’s gospel, all you would have is Joseph,
…and if all you have is Joseph, you have the promise, you have the name and you have a task. And Matthew says that in simple trust, “When Joseph woke from sleep, he did as the angel commanded him.”
May it be so. Even in us. Even today.
1. Charles Wesley, “Hark! The Herald Angels Sing,” UM Hymnal page 240
2. Helen Kromer, “For Heaven’s Sake!” page 56
3. Marjorie Holmes, “Two From Galilee”, page 209
Nativity of our Lord Cycle C (3)
It was a Christmas pageant presented by a class of four-year-olds and it was an evening to remember. It began with the three virgin Marys marching out onto the stage. As they stood there, they, of course, were waving to their parents. It’s not every Christmas pageant that has three virgin Marys, but over the years the school had acquired three Mary costumes, and so, quite naturally the script was revised. This gave a chance for more children to be involved and kept down the squabbling over who got the starring roles. The two Josephs walked up behind the Marys. Then twenty little angels came out. They were dressed in white robes and huge gauze wings. They were followed by twenty little shepherd boys, dressed in burlap sacks. They carried an array of objects that were supposed to be crooks.
“It was at this point that the problem occurred. During the dress rehearsal the teacher had used chalk to draw circles on the floor to mark where the angels were supposed to stand and crosses to mark the spots of the shepherds. But the children had practiced with their regular clothes on. So, on the night of the pageant, the angels came walking out with their beautiful gauze wings and stood on their circles. However, their huge wings covered the crosses of the shepherds as well. So when the time came for the shepherds to find their places, they did not know where to go because the angels took up all their space.
“There was one little boy who became extremely frustrated and angry over the whole experience. He finally spied his teacher behind the curtains and shocked everyone when he said in a loud stage whisper heard by everyone, ‘Because of these blankety-blank angels, I can’t find the cross!’” (1)
He didn’t say, “blankety-blank,” but we are in church, after all.
I wonder if that can’t happen sometimes? The romantic elements of Christmas the shepherds, the wise men, the angels, the star in the East not to mention the commercialism of Christmas have a tendency to obscure the important meaning of it all, and particularly the message of the cross.
That is why it might be healthy for us on this Christmas Day to turn to the prologue to John’s Gospel for our scripture lesson. There are no angels, no shepherds, no star, not even Mary and Joseph. Instead there is some of the most beautiful and important theological language ever written: “In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. He was with God in the beginning. Through him all things were made; without him nothing was made that has been made.
“In him was life, and that life was the light of men. The light shines in the darkness, but the darkness has not understood it . . . The true light that gives light to every man was coming into the world.
“He was in the world, and though the world was made through him, the world did not recognize him. He came to that which was his own, but his own did not receive him. Yet to all who received him, to those who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God children born not of natural descent, nor of human decision or a husband’s will, but born of God.
“The Word became flesh and made his dwelling among us. We have seen his glory, the glory of the One and Only, who came from the Father, full of grace and truth.” (NIV)
No shepherds, no angels, no star yet here ultimately is the story of Christmas.
This story says, first of all, that Christmas is not an act of humanity, but of God. “In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. He was with God in the beginning. Through him all things were made; without him nothing was made that has been made.” When we could do nothing for ourselves, God stepped in to save us.
A man by the name of Bob Considine tells of the time he accompanied an infant Vietnamese orphan to the U.S. so she could be adopted after the Vietnam War. On the long flight to the U.S. the baby’s eyes overflowed with tears, but she made absolutely no sound. Considine found a stewardess and asked her what the problem was. The stewardess had seen war orphans before, and was quick to tell Considine that this was normal. As she said, “the reason they don’t make noise when they cry is because they learned a long time ago that nobody will come.” (2)
What a sad story. A child quits crying when she learns that no one will come. It could be our story. But it is not our story because of the babe in the manger. Christmas is not an act of humanity, but of God.
This story says, in the second place, that God acted in the only way God could act. “In him was life, and that life was the light of men. The light shines in the darkness, but the darkness has not understood it . . . The true light that gives light to every man was coming into the world. He was in the world, and though the world was made through him, the world did not recognize him. He came to that which was his own, but his own did not receive him.”
Why could the darkness not understand him? Why did the world not receive him? The problem is quite clear.
If you can imagine the difference between a keeper of an aquarium and the fish in that aquarium, then you might begin to understand the difference between humanity and God. God is Spirit. Have you ever seen a spirit? God is the creator of a universe that may be billions of light years wide. Can you even begin to imagine a Being of that extraordinary Power and Knowledge? How could God even speak to us without scaring us to death?
Dr. Daniel Paul Matthews, rector of TrinityChurch, delivered a message on Christmas Eve, 2001, at St. Paul’s Chapel, New York City. This was in the year that the WorldTradeCenter was destroyed by terrorist on 9-11. St. Paul’s is very close to Ground Zero. And yet, in that message he expressed God’s solution to the gulf that exists between Absolute Power and human need in a beautiful way:
Pretend something like this happened for a moment: The angel Gabriel got back to heaven and rushed up to God and said, “I’ve got good news, and I’ve got bad news.”
And God said, “Well, give me the good news first.”
“The good news is,” said the angel, “mission accomplished. I’ve visited those people you told me to visit. I told them what you told me to tell them. And it’s all accomplished.”
God said, “So what’s the bad news?”
“The bad news,” the angel said, “is that those people down there on earth are terrified of you. Every time I visited someone I had to start it off with ‘fear not,’ because they got so frightened that you were coming close.”
God said to the angel, “That’s the reason I have to carry out the plan I’ve made.”
“You see,” he said to the angel, “I need to go to earth because my people are so frightened. They are so full of fear that I’ve got to bring the message that they no longer need to be afraid.”
The angel said, “And how are you going to do that, since they’re so fearful?”
God said, “There’s one place on earth that people are not afraid: that one remaining place is a little baby. My people on earth are not afraid of a baby. When a baby is born they rejoice and give thanks without fear because that’s the only place left in their lives where they’re not afraid. So I will go to earth. I will become a little baby, and they will receive me with no fear at all, because that’s the one place my people have no fear.” (3)
God acted in the only way God could act without overwhelming us and taking away our freedom. God became a tiny babe. Christmas is an act of God. In Christmas God acted in the only way God could have acted.
And, finally, in Christmas God gave to us the greatest gift God could give us–God told us who we are.
Have you ever received a Christmas gift that you knew was not well thought out? Someone sent it to you just to get the gift-giving over and done with. Oh, you’ve sent a gift like that?
Some of you will remember a Democratic presidential candidate of many years ago named Adlai Stevenson. Stevenson was a respected politician who had the misfortune to run against a genuine war hero, Gen. Dwight D. Eisenhower.
There is a hilarious story that is told on Adlai Stevenson. When he was working in the Agricultural Adjustment Administration, he wrote a marketing agreement for the walnut industry. That Christmas the industry thanked him by sending him an enormous gunnysack full of packages of walnuts. This generous gift came at just the right time because Stevenson had not done his Christmas shopping. Happily he took these packages of walnuts and sent them to all his Washington friends. Then he made the awful discovery. In each of the individual packages was a little card saying, “Merry Christmas from the walnut industry to Adlai Stevenson.” He should have known better. At least, he should have examined one of the packages of walnuts before he started sending them out. But he was in a hurry and did not give much thought to what he was doing. We do that sometimes, don’t we? Give gifts without much thought to them?
Not so with God. God knew right from the beginning what He was doing. God gave us what we most needed. God told us who we are. “He came to that which was his own, but his own did not receive him. Yet to all who received him, to those who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God children born not of natural descent, nor of human decision or a husband’s will, but born of God.” That’s who we are children of God. When we know that, the meaning and purpose of life changes.
Marjorie Tallcott was married and had one child during the Great Depression. The family managed to scrape their way through, but as Christmas approached one year Marjorie and her husband were disappointed that they would not be able to buy any presents. A week before Christmas they explained to their six-year-old son, Pete, that there would be no store-bought presents this Christmas. “But I’ll tell you what we can do,” said Pete’s father, “we can make pictures of the presents we’d like to give to each other.”
That was a busy week. Marjorie and her husband set to work. Christmas Day arrived and the family rose to find their skimpy little tree made magnificent by the picture presents they had adorned it with. There was luxury beyond imagination in those pictures a black limousine and red speedboat for Dad, a diamond bracelet and fur coat for Mom, a camping tent and a swimming pool for Pete. Then Pete pulled out his present, a crayon drawing of a man, a woman and a child with their arms around each other laughing. Under the picture was just one word: “US.” Years later Marjorie writes that it was the richest, most satisfying Christmas they ever had. (4)
Pete’s card summed it up. “Us.” The love and security of a family. It’s the kind of picture God presents to us on Christmas Day. Read God’s Christmas card: “Yet to all who received him, to those who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God children born not of natural descent, nor of human decision or a husband’s will, but born of God.” Christmas is an act of God, not of humanity. God acted in the only way that God could have acted without taking away our freedom. God became a tiny baby. And God told us who we are: God’s own children. We don’t need to fear anything. We belong to God.
1. Best Sermons 3, Harper & Row, 1990, pp. 49-50. Cited in a sermon by Dr. Mickey Anders, First Christian Church, Pikeville, KY. http://www.pikevillefirstchristianchurch.org/Sermons/Sermon20000827.html
2. Pastor Dan Mangler’s Sunday Sermon, http://www.smlc-elca.org/Sunday_sermons/march_13_2005_sermon.html.
3. http://www.trinitywallstreet.org/news/alert_123.shtml Posted on Trinity News 3.
4. Mike Turner, jmturner58@bellsouth.net, The Rock Baptist
Nativity of our Lord Cycle C (2)
“A child is born for us, a son is given to us.” The Prophet Isaiah
“Jesus Christ gave himself for us.” The Apostle Paul to Titus
“A savior has been born for you who is Christ the Lord.” The Gospel of Luke
“But to those who did accept him he gave power to become children of God.”
Nativity of our Lord Cycle C (2)
The Gospel of John
These quotations are taken from various readings in the four Masses of Christmas: the Vigil Mass, Midnight Mass, the Mass at Dawn and the Mass during the Day. In this season of gift giving, it is good to remind ourselves that the reason we give gifts is as a reflection of the gift of love we received from God when he gave us his son, Jesus the Christ.
I read a beautiful story about a gift given many years ago by the journalist playwright Charles MacArthur to his fiancee, the great actress Helen Hayes. At the time the gift was given, they were not famous, they were very young and they were very poor. With a flourish, Charles gave the young lady he would soon marry a bag of peanuts. He then said to her, “I wish they were emeralds.” Many years later, after years of devoted marriage, Charles lay on his deathbed at Christmastime. He had the strength to give his wife a gift he had a friend procure for him. The gift was an emerald bracelet. The story goes that when Charles MacArthur gave the bracelet to Helen Hayes, he said, “I wish they were peanuts.” The years of love were far more valuable than the emeralds. The real gift that Charles gave Helen was his love. His true gift was a reflection of the gift of Christmas, the gift of God’s love.
I want to speak about real gifts today, the gifts that matter, the gifts that reflect God’s love, true Christmas gifts. Of course, I have no choice but to speak in generalities, but perhaps you might be able to relate the needs and gifts I present today to your own lives.
I want to begin with the gifts given between husbands and wives. Let’s start with the men. Deep in the heart of every man, every husband, is his sense of success or failure as a man. Most men will tend to focus more on their failures than what others might reasonably consider their successes. A man wants to be a leader at home, at work, in the community. He wants to be a successful provider. But he knows how infrequently he enjoys genuine success. How often are his opinions sought out? How wide is the scope of his influence? A man may appear to have a handsome, smiling self assured exterior, but he is frequently a silent sufferer of emotional fatigue, frustration, and most often, discouragement. He may be earning a very good salary, but often feels totally inadequate in his own home. What gift does he need from his wife? He needs encouragement when he is weak, and approval when he is strong. To understand her husband in this way, a wife has to take a step away from her own
perception of the world and a step away from her own needs to support her husband. Taking a step away from her own agenda and taking a step into her husband’s needs is a gift of love, a reflection of the Gift of Love we celebrate at Christmas.
The wife is like Jesus speaking to his large, impetuous and somewhat clumsy, disciple, Peter. When Jesus walked on the water, Peter started to walk over to him on the water, but soon became afraid and started to drown. When Peter’s bravado was louder than his courage and he denied the Lord, Jesus reached out to him and convinced him that he would do better, exhorting him three times to “Feed my sheep”, canceling Simon’s three denials. Earlier, when Peter was strong and declared that Jesus was the Christ, Jesus showed his approval by calling him his rock. So, also, a wife’s great gift to her husband is encouraging him in his weakness and approving him in his strength.
Women, wives, also have great needs, but needs that are somewhat different from their husbands’ needs. A perceptive husband can give his wife the gift that she craves at Christmas and throughout the year. Like her husband, a wife lives much of her greatness away from her spouse. He does not witness her continual skills as a mother, a homemaker, a child psychologist, a neighborhood diplomat. Many wives also juggle a job with their homemaking. Most husbands do their best to compliment their wives, but many men do not realize that a woman needs much more than compliments. Again, I am speaking in general terms here, but deep within every woman is the fear of being unloved or even unlovable. She has a fear of being considered unattractive, a fear that is heightened with each year. But the deepest fear within a woman is a gnawing sense of loneliness. Surrounded by the demands of children and husband, she often feels alone in a crowd. She feels that she has to solve the problems of her family’s world, while her basic need is ignored by all around her.
Husbands, to give your wife a true Christmas gift that lasts all year, be present for her. Be considerate, be attentive and be affectionate when she least expects attention. To do this you husbands have to step away from your own wants and dive into your wives’ needs. You have to reflect the sacrificial gift of the God. You can assume the role that Jesus took in his relationship with Mary of Bethany. This was the Mary who treasured the presence of the Lord while her sister Martha was busy with chores. Jesus told her that she had chosen well. He wanted her to experience his presence. Mary of Bethany, under the name Mary Magdalene was also the first one to whom Jesus appeared that first Easter morning when after the crucifixion all seemed lost. He told her to fear not, he was there. Husband, say with your lives to your wives, “Fear not, I am with you,” and give them the gift of knowing that they will never be alone. This is a reflection of the gift of Christmas.
Children have watched TV for the last month. Some of them want everything they see. But they have only one real need that so many parents often miss. It is a need that takes time, a commodity that some parents are not willing to sacrifice. The basic need of a child is the need for security. This demands time, continual time, time
to do that which in the eyes of the world might seem insignificant but in the eyes of the child is critical. This is the commodity that so many parents refuse their children. A child must know that Mommy and Daddy are there, loving, caring, protecting. Parents who shower gifts upon their children but who delegate their presence to nannies and continual baby sitters are depriving their little ones from their greatest need, their parents’ presence. The sacrifice of being present, the sacrifice of presence, is a reflection of the gift of Christmas, the abiding presence of God.
As children grow their needs tend to model their parents. Growing boys need continual encouragement. Growing girls need continual assurances that they are not alone. Parents would be shocked to learn how many of their teenage children go through periods of disparaging or even hating themselves. Parental presence, encouragement, support, and trust go a long way in helping a child achieve a sense of personal affirmation and self-worth. When children grow into adults recognizing the presence of their parents’ love, they grow recognizing the presence of God’s love in their lives. At Christmas we proclaim that Jesus is the Emmanuel, God with us. Children experience the Emmanuel in the presence of their parents.
And what is it that children can give to their parents? What is it that their parents really want? Simply this: respect. Children, whether you are little, teenagers, or even adults, respect your parents. Respect them even during those rare times, I’m sure, when you disagree with them. They are your parents. They have earned the right to be honored, the fourth commandment tells us. You may give many gifts to your Mom and Dad at Christmas, but this is the one they need: respect. Remember, the accounts of Jesus’s birth all end with the how he related to his parents. He was subject to them, which is the biblical way of saying, he honored them. Because he honored them he grew, the gospels tell us, in wisdom and grace.
Well, that takes care of those in the family setting, but how about the rest of us: the single, the widowed, the divorced? What are the gifts that we need and that we need to give each other? The answer to this flows from the basic needs of women and men, the need to heal the wounds of loneliness and discouragement. The Gospel for the Christmas Mass During the Day proclaims the “Word was made flesh.” This is not just a theological doctrine. When we say this we are affirming that Christ became one of us, a person who can and does relate to us. The gift of Christmas that God has given to us, especially to those of us who have to go it alone, is the gift that we are never really alone. We have instead, within us, divine life, light and love.
In a few simple words, the Gospel of John describes the life of the Christian and the continual gift of Christmas. Those words are grace flowing upon grace. There is no limit to the depth of God’s gift to us. The closer we come to him, the more room we have for him to fill us even more with his presence. The more we delve into the mystery of the Emmanuel, God with us, the more we enjoy his presence.
Christmas is a day of joy. It is a day when we open our eyes to the beauty of the Christmas scene and our hearts to the profundity of the Christmas mystery.
And yes, we clothe our Christmas in a great deal of sentimentality, with songs and scenes of the Newborn Babe. We do our best to summon up feelings of peace and good will. But sentimentality is not religion and feelings are not faith. Sentimentality and feelings really do not matter. What does matter is the realization that God is with us, will always remain faithful to us and will never stop offering us the gift of salvation. And He calls us to give the Gift of His Presence to all in the world.
This is the ultimate message of Christmas.
Nativity of our Lord Cycle C (1)
Emailsanta.com receives more than a million emails every year, and each one gets a response. Here are some samples of the emails they receive:
Dear Santa, I’m sorry, but I don’t have a chimney . . . I’ll leave the cat flap unlocked for you, but please watch out for the litter box! Jon, (aged) 4
Dear Santa, Do you have elves that help or elves that sit on the sofa all day long? Jenny, 8
Dear Santa, Mommy & Daddy says I have not been very good these past few days. How bad can I be before I lose my presents? Christian, 7 (Many adult Christians ask that question, don’t they?)
Dear Santa, Did you really run over my grandma? MacKenzie, 11
Dear Santa, I’m sorry for putting all that Ex-lax in your milk last year, but I wasn’t sure if you were real. My dad was really mad. Bri, 7
Dear Santa, You really don’t need to send me the motor home. I know that you won’t be able to fit it in your sleigh. I know that the elves won’t be able to reach the pedals, and anyway, my mom said I can’t get my driver’s license yet. Kyle, 5
Dear Santa, Pleease! Don’t bring me any new clothes. Kayla, 9
Dear Santa, Thank you for the remote control car last year, even though it broke the day after. I know you tried, and that’s what counts. Alex, 8
Dear Santa, Do you know Jesus is the real reason for the Christmas? Not to be mean, but he is. Rosanne, 11 (1)
Rosanne is right, of course. Jesus is the reason for the season.
A few years ago, Roberta Messner was browsing through a local flea market when she came upon an antique Christmas crèche, or manger scene. The price was too good to be true. When Roberta questioned the owner, she verified that it was the correct price. “You can have it for a dollar,” she said. “It’s all there except Jesus.”
No wonder the price was so low! A Christmas crèche is worthless without the figurine of the Christ child. That’s the centerpiece, the most important part. Suddenly, Roberta realized that she was just like that Christmas crèche. She was going through that whole Christmas season without making Jesus the centerpiece of her activities. (2)
That says it all, doesn’t it? That’s what Christmas is all about. That is why we read with so much eagerness that wondrous story about shepherds living out in the fields, keeping watch over their flocks at night. An angel of the Lord appeared to them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were terrified. But the angel said to them, “Do not be afraid. I bring you good news that will cause great joy for all the people. Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is the Messiah, the Lord. This will be a sign to you: You will find a baby wrapped in cloths and lying in a manger.”
Suddenly a great company of the heavenly host appeared with the angel, praising God and saying, “Glory to God in the highest heaven, and on earth peace to those on whom his favor rests.”
When the angels had left them and gone into heaven, the shepherds said to one another, “Let’s go to Bethlehem and see this thing that has happened, which the Lord has told us about.”
So they hurried off and found Mary and Joseph, and the baby, who was lying in the manger. When they had seen him, they spread the word concerning what had been told them about this child, and all who heard it were amazed at what the shepherds said to them. But Mary treasured up all these things and pondered them in her heart.
Someone has called it the greatest story ever told, and it is.
When they laid the first transatlantic cable across the bed of the Atlantic Ocean to Europe they wondered: What should be the first message sent over this cable to see if it is working? Finally, they chose these words spoken first by the angels: “Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace, good will toward men.”
Christmas began in the heart of God. That’s the first thing we need to see. “Love came down at Christmas,” wrote the poet, and it’s true God’s love came down to us in the manger of Bethlehem. Christmas began in the heart of God.
There is a time-honored story about a grandfather who was babysitting his four-year-old grandson. He read him a story and tucked him into bed. Then he went downstairs to watch television.
A storm came up, a big thunderstorm, lightning, thunder. The little boy was scared. “Grandpa, I’m scared. Come up here and help me.”
Grandpa didn’t want him to be afraid, and said to him, “Don’t worry, you’ll be all right. You know God loves you.”
The little boy answered down the steps, “I know God loves me, I just need something with skin on it.” We look into the manger and we see God comes to us with skin, the word made flesh. (3) That is why Christmas brings out the best in us. The New Testament teaches us that the very nature of God is love. In the glow of Christmas, we know ourselves to be loved and we are led to love others.
Several years ago a woman in California took into her home over Christmas a family evacuated from a severely flooded area. Since she had six children of her own and a comparatively small house, a friend asked her why she felt it was up to her to assume this responsibility.
This woman explained that at the end of World War II, a family in her home town in Germany was left destitute. On Christmas Eve the mother of this family said to her children, “We are not able to have much for Christmas this year, so I have just one present for all. Now I will go get it.” She returned with a little orphan girl and announced, “Here is your present.”
This generous California mother went on to tell how the children in this family welcomed the little child with affection. She grew up as a full member of that family as their sister. Then she added, “I was that Christmas gift.” (4)
She gave to this family of evacuees what she had once been given. The Bible says, “We love because God first loved us” (I John 3:19). Christmas began in the heart of God.
Christmas is about hope. It is no accident that Christmas comes at the darkest time of the year. We don’t know the date when Jesus was actually born, so when the date was set for Christmas it was to symbolize the words of Isaiah that the people who sat in darkness have seen a great light. Christmas represents hope. There is no finer symbol of hope than the birth of a child. As Carl Sandburg wrote: “A baby is God’s opinion that life should go on . . .”
In his autobiography Long Walk to Freedom, Nelson Mandela tells about the impact a baby had on his life.
Mandela had been a political prisoner for fourteen years doing hard labor in a rock quarry on infamous Robben Island, South Africa. However, in 1978, Zeni, his second-youngest daughter married a prince a son of the king of Swaziland. There was a tremendous advantage in Zeni’s becoming a member of the Swazi royal family: she was immediately granted diplomatic privileges and could visit Mandela virtually at will. This was amazingly good news for Mandela. For just about his entire imprisonment he had been cut off almost entirely from his children.
That winter, after they were married, the young couple came to see Mandela, along with their newborn baby daughter. Because of his son-in-law’s status as a prince, Mandela and his family were allowed to meet in the consulting room, not the normal visiting area where one is separated from one’s family by thick walls and glass.
Mandela reports that he waited for his daughter and her family with some nervousness. It was a truly a wondrous moment when they came into the room. He stood up, and when Zeni saw him, she practically tossed her tiny daughter to her husband and ran across the room to embrace him. He had not held his now-grown daughter since she was a baby. It was a dizzying experience, says Mandela, as though time had sped forward in a science fiction novel, to suddenly hug one’s fully grown child. He then embraced his new son, Zeni’s husband, the prince.
Finally, his son-in-law handed Mandela his tiny granddaughter. Mandela says he did not let go of this precious child for the rest of the visit. To hold a newborn baby, so vulnerable and soft in his rough hands, hands that for too long had held only picks and shovels, was a profound joy. He says that in his mind, no man was ever happier to hold a baby than he was that day.
The visit, however, had a more official purpose and that was for Mandela to choose a name for the child. It is a custom in their culture for the grandfather to select the new child’s name, and the one he chose was Zaziwe which means “Hope.” The name had special meaning for Nelson Mandela, for during all his years in prison, he says, hope never left him and now it never would. He was convinced that this child would be a part of a new generation of South Africans for whom apartheid would be a distant memory that was his dream. (5)
A baby named Hope. Jesus could have been named Hope, for he represented humanity’s most profound hope. Instead he was named Jesus Deliverer, Savior. Isaiah gave him other names: Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace. Christmas comes from the heart of God. Christmas is about hope.
This is to say that Christmas is the best news this world could ever receive. An angel had the privilege of first announcing the news to the shepherds. “Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is the Messiah, the Lord.” What a powerful message.
Years ago Chuck Swindoll pointed out the difference that a baby can make. He wrote of Napoleon sweeping through Austria in 1809. That was the big news that transfixed the world of that time. Looking back, however, the really important news of that year was not the battles that were fought, but the babies that were born: William Gladstone, for example, one of the finest statesmen that England ever produced. Alfred, Lord Tennyson, the extraordinary poet. Oliver Wendell Holmes, Edgar Allen Poe, Charles Darwin, and perhaps most notably, Abraham Lincoln.
Swindoll writes, “If there had been news broadcasts at that time, I’m certain these words would have been heard: ‘The destiny of the world is being shaped on an Austrian battlefield today.’ Or was it?
“Funny, only a handful of history buffs today could name even two or three of the Austrian campaigns. Looking back, you and I realize that history was actually being shaped in the cradles of England and America as young mothers held in their arms the shakers and the movers of the future . . .” (6)
History was certainly being shaped as Mary held her newborn son in her arms. Not only the history of the world, but your history and mine. Let us give God thanks this night. Christmas comes from the heart of God. Christmas is about hope. Christmas is the best news this world could ever receive.
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1. From the Internet. Source unknown.
2. Roberta Messner, Daily Guideposts 2000 (Carmel, N.Y.: Guideposts, 1999), p. 369.
3. Rev. Charles Schuster, http://www.fcfumc.net/sermons/docs/12-16-07-ChristmasCouldDisappointUs.pdf.
4. Reader’s Digest. Date unknown.
5. Charles R. Swindoll, Growing Deep in the Christian Life (Portland: Multnomah Press, 1986).
6. Nelson Mandela. Long Walk to Freedom: The Autobiography of Nelson Mandela (Kindle edition).